I read the first post to this thread and now I am officially terrified. I came online so exhausted, looking for someone to help me figure out what I'm doing wrong with my 2 1/2 year old extremely intelligent daughter....who REFUSES to use the potty or the toilet. And now that I've read NiteNicole's post Iam really really scared. My daughter is so smart...this is what frustrates me. She knows all the reasons why she should not be in diapers, yet she bawls and screams like...