thx for your support, mamas. I agree about not mixing the past with the present. so easy to do; once you have kids you can see so often how one affects the other. I guess I'll just wait & see re: confronting her or not. she wants to come up for a visit later this month : Can't say I'm looking forward to seeing her, but the girls are... and that takes precedence for now.
6/3/05 at 12:31pm