I have about 3 inches of gray, need to bleach my stache, and groom the brows, but other than these lovely misgivings, here's what I do to at least feel some what attractive:
*Long, curly hair thanks to pregnancy and supplements--so at least I have this going for me. I agree--avoid the mommy do'. I had something like this a few years back and the pictures horrify me!!
*Light makeup, at least concealer, and mascara to disguise sleep-deprived...