Posts by chefmommy

I can't help but feel so stressed and frustrated by this entire process. My children are  still upset - especially my daughter, my credit is ruined, bill collectors are harassing me, I am losing my home, the lawyer fees...

Hello  Mamapajama - I was wondering the ages of your children?  I saw you mentioned they were 8 & 10 when you were going through the initial process....  I believe? My children are 10 & 12 and I have...

Hi Hillymum - temp support was established but he never paid so I filed contempt and we had the hearing 3 months ago. but, no decision still from the judge:(     I have been pleading with the lawyer to ask...

I have a question for you Ladies - still going - nearly 1 year already. No child support or any other money still. Had contempt hearing almost 3 months ago and no decision from the judge. My lawyer keeps sending me bills even though by...

So I get that once we are divorced I can enforce court ordered child support through the CSEA, but, how do I recoup the additional money? He is supposed to supposed to pay more than half of childcare, medical, extracurricular...

I don't know about anyone else, but, I am sad as his weekend approaches and downright depressed until they are returned home to me. One of my children begs to stay with me because we are so close and unsolicited of course. I...

I like splitting the week much better, Especially since we cannot get along or compromise on anything. I offered him Thanksgiving weekend cuz his family was in town. Mine will be here the week before Christmas - so I wanted that...

So sorry you are oing through this. It actually took me about 3 years to finally go to a lawyer. Things would be good for a little while and then he would go back to his addictions. I would get him help - he woul be better for a little...

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