I am posting here hoping maybe I'm not alone...sorry in advance it's so long: I have been living with a wonderful man for a year now. He is everything I could ever want... Smart, sexy, hilarious, and so loving.  We are planning to get married and have a baby in the next few years and I know I couldn't ask for a better father for my children.  He has a daughter who is now just 2 (1 when we got together). He has been fighting for 50-50 access but giving his ex 'time'... The...