Posts by Findingstrength

We saw a judge to get things moving. He basically lectured us for 15 minutes about how he hated the affidavits.  One spouse would go on about how bad the other spouse was, then the second spouce would defend themselves and have a...

Im trying to speak well of their father, even when they are not in ear shot.  But it hard.  Then they look at you like if he's so nice, why are you getting divorced?

I am really wanting to move past being upset with x. Talk well of him when he's not around.  But never go back.  Any one got any advise on how you learned to get along with x.  We have to work together for many years yet...

Jewelry isn't worth much resale.  I think I'll give he diamond ring to ds one day. It's not the real ring. Their dad traded it in for a bigger one that would compete with the co workers. The red ruby one I plan to give to dd. I...

Can't stand Disney. When my kids were little, they only watched public tv. Clifford, super why, George. Those shows. Disney was load, and had too many adds for crappy food I didn't wan to explain why we were not buying.

Welcome to the club. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. It will suck for a few months, but it gets better.

Have you got a job? A job keeps your mind busy. I have only been separated 5 months, but we were married 12 years. It took some time, but I think I am getting back to being ok alone. Do you have hobbies. I have my sewing machine out...

Good for you. If he really wanted no more kids he should of been snipped. I feel this very strongly. Most medical research is conducted on men not women because we have these crazy hormones that change. It makes more sence that life...

Last week he sent me a text with a pic of ds using a drill press to get his pinewood durby car wheels fast. I text back, 'how are you able to afford a drill press.' He responds 'oh I know I wasn't supposed but home depo had a sale and I...

Omg, seriously? Do these guys get that they are parents too? And umm it isn't the 1600s anymore?