Posts by chikeemomma

Those of you who are already dealing with ex's or soon to be ex's....how do you emotionally handle visitation? How do you deal with watching your kids leave for an entire weekend? I've always been the one to put kids to bed....do bath...

Thank you all for the support. I'm still in the midst of deciding what to do. I really with all my heart want to keep my family together....I just wish that h would even feel the slightest remorse for the intense pain he has caused...

His family meeting the child stirred up so many emotions. They....H's parents and siblings....immediately accepted the child...they've all gotten together and taken child to parades...little league games....out to eat....h never got...

I don't know how old child is.....just approximation....says he doesn't remember.....all he's given me is a month....famuly members on H's side already have relationship with this child.....

Hi everyone. Thank you all for your support....I have not had a chance to read all posts yet but do want to add that ow did know h was married with children.

Im so grateful that there is a place like this where I can come to and feel safe to vent and ask for advice. You all are so awesome! If it weren't for this community I would have no where to turn for venting or advice. My life is my...

Thank you so much lil green. I'm trying to do my best for my own. They are my life.

Banana 731... he did not tell me of the child til she was over a year old. I did not even know she existed at this point. Apparently he had been picking up the child all along and taking her places...unbeknownst to me. I'm not sure...

He has been pretty cold and matter of fact of the situation. Its unbelievable. He's nit asked me anything about how I'm feeling or anything fir that matter. When I do ask him anything and I mean anything he gets pretty defensive and...

Yes....that's what I think...rug sweeping...he says it happened and there's nothing that can be done about it....the child is here and that's that... He wont tell me much of anything of their visits....for all I know he's spending time...