If she isn't found, my understanding is that they go through with it anyway-like a no contest, but they may give her more than a year. It's really out of our hands which is why it could possibly take so long. Sadly he was married in a Catholic church. I definitely look at it as the latter, it just threw me for a loop! I wasn't expecting to be told I couldn't join until this was taken care of, you know? Thank you for all your thoughts. They mean a lot.
3/3/13 at 7:01pm