So I hope I'm in the right place. Let me start off by saying I'm not a parent myself but could do with the input of mothers and to help me understand a problem I have. Ill try to keep it as brief as possible but in short my husband and I are in our late twenties and have been married for two years now. We don't have kids yet out of choice as we are both extremely busy in our careers (both in publishing) and want to have children in a few years when we are ready and able...