Hi I been having real battles with my son started at 8 a year ago when we migrated.  I thought by now he would have settled, but everyldayis a constant shouting screamin match, he never listens, cant hear the word no without throwing a tantrum, is very cruel to his sister..  I have tried taking away stuff he likes playing away, talking reasoning nothing works.  I feel like ia m failing as a mother, I knew resetlling would have been hard but didn think it would be this...