I dd, age 8, calls me Mom or Mommy. When first adopted she called me Ms. Heather and she called dh "that man" or "mr. first name". Now she calls him Dad or Daddy. She wanted to call my mom Cindy (that is not even close to her name). But now she calls her Gogo, which is Zulu for grandmother and she calls my dad GrandPop. She calls DH's mom Nene. My little dd, age 2, calls me Mama and calls dh Baba.