Hello. My wife and I have been together for seven years. Married for two and a half. We had our first child (planned) four months ago. He is wonderful and we both love him very much. She is a natural with him while I am learning something new every day. She has her own business and when I am home she is at work and when I am at work she is at home. Two days a week he is with a baby sitter while we both work. Anyways, you get the point that we both spend a lot of time...