My baby is 4 wks old. She left in a crib next my bed the first wk, then she wouldn't go to sleep easy. My bf took care of her mostly and handed me her when she needed to eat (had a c section and breastfeeding) .. She does not like to be swaddled at all. Now it's getting tough for her to just go to bed easy without being held till she's out and sometimes as soon as I put her down she wakes up. Any ideas what to do?