Wow....so there are others like my 3yo son born 10.01.2010! I feel for you - i know exactly what you are going through and that this is more than just a 'phase' etc. Im on my own with my little one and am often at my wits end. He consumes all my time, energy, focus just dealing with the day to day battles. He is also considered as having a speech delay. So, what do i think??? Im not sure if this is food related: check out fedupwithfood.com which educates on the additives...