@alastair - You were in same boat where I am today, and I am glad to see there are people out there in this world who understand daddy's have heart and feelings as well. Even I don't have solo custody of my child but I love my daughter. I am in USA and my daughter is in Canada with her mother and step dad but there no moment in my life where I am not thinking about her.    Over video conference today was the first time my daughter called her step dad "daddy" in front of...