I think AP is a self determined label.
And if somebody thinks of themselves or their philosophy as AP, I can only wonder what they would be doing if they did not believe in AP.
SOmetimes there is a big gap between philosophy and practice because life gets in the way. We cannot judge anothers philosophy by their actions all of the time.
There are many many good AP mamas who have resorted to CIO when at the end of their rope. (some of them couldnt go through with it, some...