I've had two early miscarriages in recent months.
We won't be telling anyone until much much later on. I don't think I'll believe it myself fully until I see that little heart beating on the ultrasound next week.
We won't be telling anyone that we wouldn't want to un-tell, which pretty much means we'll be keeping it to ourselves until it's obvious that I am pregnant. Then we'll tell the kids which will have the effect of letting the whole world know in no time at all.