I'd add, "no harrassing your sibling while s/he's talking to dad." And we have a bedtime window, ie you don't get to call dad when it's time to get ready for bed or time to be in bed. I haven't had to set limits on him. Yet. He's talking to them combined less than once/month since he left. I've been more worried that he will freak out on me or on them for them not meeting his expectations than anything else, but it seems to be going okay.
9/13/06 at 11:39pm