Jennyanydots, this was almost 4 weeks ago but I wanted to say almost immediately after I wrote it, how perfectly lame that sounds to me. Just go read some books! I love researching this kind of thing (search, "great sex ed books for kids whose moms a had a tough time of it")! I was going to come back 2 or 3 perfectly chosen, thoughtful, insightful book suggestions. Now I'm laughing at myself. I'm betting you're getting along just fine.