Hi! I've always just lurked, but your post made me so sad that I had to reply! I'm SOOOOO sorry your ds has been so traumatized at daycare. No child should ever have to go through such an experience, and I think you are 100% justified in pulling him out immediately. I applaud you for "reading" him so well, and doing what's best for him. FWIW, I love my daycare (a home-based Montessori daycare/preschool) and dh and I are always joking that our 14-month dd is...