Posts by sren

Quote: Originally Posted by Petronella    Hi Monkeybum.  Yes I have been through that (still sharing space with a VERY hotheaded STBX). It was the worst period of my life, I'm not going to lie. But it was...

Hugs to you, that is hard! If you can document that his behavior is abusive, you could qualify for a protection order which removes him from the home.  This might mean proceeding with the separation and then when he reacts...

I was the one who left and I haven't gotten rid of any of it.  I figure those albums are meaningful to our children, heck, they are still meaningful to me because of our children.  As painful as the marriage ending (and the...

OP, here are a couple of good reads that helped me find some clarity and might apply in your situation.. The Verbally Abusive Relationship (by Patricia Evans) and Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay.  You are definitely not alone!!!

I waited about 10 or 11 months, and did a lot of work (and continue to do a lot of work) on myself after leaving a long-term abusive relationship.  It was still iffy, as the first guy that I was drawn to was a jerk, and i knew it,...

((Alaura5)) Wow, that is a lot to process.  I would say maintain the separation and take plenty of time and space in making that decision.  There are levels of betrayal to this affair-- the timing...

Hi BabyBearsMummy! Way to go!   Tuesday Ran about 3 miles, low (too low) cal day Wednesday Ran 3 miles with hills, super low cal day-- this is not intentional (or good), my stomach is a mess right now for emotional...

Welcome back, Lorena, and way to go, Babybearsmommy!  I ate camping food for three days and only ran a mile once.  Wednesday Ran 3 miles, low cal day Thursday Ran 3+ miles, low cal day Friday no workout, binged...

Wednesday 1 mile run, mod cal day Thursday 1 mile run, low cal day

Hi, Holland, that's great for so little sleep!   Lorena, I love the picture!   Sunday 2 mi run, low cal day Monday no workout, low cal day Tuesday 2 mi run, mod cal day