We have been the lucky recepients of lots of hand me downs - I have 3 neices and 4 nephews and my son wears clothes from all of them. My favorite gender neutral type stuff is the "nature" themes with bugs, bees, frogs, etc. we've got lots of that. I didn't want to know the sex before he was born and I was amazed at the number of people that wondered how I could buy anything if I didn't know what sex the baby was. Lots of issues there - no need to buy lots of crap for...