Yes, I think you are a lactivist.
However, I think that what you are describing sounds more like self weaning then a nursing strike. My first DD did that and it was incredibly disapointing. I do want to offer hope, though- my new...
That part about moms who take anti-depressants pissed me off, too!
That LC was not at all intuitive. I have seen people in action like that, and her form was fine, she said she had nursed 2 other babes.
Well, I think the first step is to show off your actual product, and make a few and put them up on Hyena cart. I heard the HC is very cheap to list stuff. If you get a good response then you could go from there.