MW: Currently scared and nervous, I've been spotting and cramping all weekend. I know that some of it can be perfectly normal but it's frightening. My midwives here can't help at all so I went ahead and scheduled an OB appt for next week to confirm pregnancy. I need to see an OB to get an ultrasound and blood work close to 20 weeks anyway. I don't want to go in to ER again unless I absolutely have to.