LOL! I try to remember that we sometimes have good days, too. So, here's one for the record... Right now, all three kids are playing nicely with respect for each other, while they allow me to rest in here! I have been trying to outline and explain our plan for the day (even just my intentions), and that has been helping. When DS feels he is in my priority queue, he is less inclined to be fearful that he won't get what he wants/needs. Thank god for good days.