ParkersMama I think all that you are doing is great!
Originally posted by LoveBeads
believe me when they are tantruming, the only thing on their mind is complete loss of control and it is frightening.
I use to think the same thing, But as ds got older I started to say at the start of a fit "now look at what you are doing" say this in a gentle voice. That way he can be angry, mad, upset and still able to think about his actions.