The 5 Love Languages:
I am : "quality time" and "acts of service" (i like to receive and give these as love).
Dh is: "words of affirmation" and "physical touch"
Thanks again for the reminder...
yes, tjej and just_angel, there is more to the issue. i think i have been cold to him (ie grumpy) because of the aforementioned problems HE creates, and then it is a viscious circle. Let me ask you, how happy would you be in the AM if...
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Originally Posted by CariOfOz
I often put a damp microfibre cloth on the floor and 'clean' it using my foot
now thats my style
Bolded bits mine, You say he's not around when you'd like to hang out? I...
Another thought - I guess I feel like one way a married stay-at-home woman with 2 small children shows her husband love is by . . . . keeping a nice home, providing good meals, giving good care to his children. I hate to sound...
i dont think his standards are lower. he occasionally cleans the bathroom - its quite a sight, he empties it and uses a hose to spray everything, including the walls, down. when he does clean, he is super thorough. The reason I...
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Originally Posted by dbsam
...I think a 5 minute job can take twenty with constant interruptions.
LOL! i realize i did not allow for interruptions! Yes, most days unloading the dishwasher takes 10...
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Originally Posted by happysmileylady
I have to say that when you start off by saying that you were passing a damp cloth with water and lavender oil over the bathroom floor, I can imagine where your DH is coming...