I see. Hmm do you have any trusted midwives that DON'T live near you? I mean I know that my midwife would be happy to take the occasional woman about something like that, even if she was across the country and couldn't come take a look. Perhaps somewhere you used to live or a midwife who attended for a friend. Just looking for ideas that might help ease your mind and help you have a plan.
If it makes you feel any better, it's really NOT common to have that problem