You have to drive it home to daycares to CALL YOU. I got all the excuses in the book when my oldest were little about how they can't do that, they don't have the staff, the kids need to get used to it, they need to cry (ugh), etc etc. I told them if they can't call, we wouldn't be back. They started calling. Might not work for every daycare but you are the parent, you are their boss, paying them. Calling mom or dad for a hysterical baby breaks no "rules" that any daycare has.