EricaLeigh, have you tried using coconut oil on your hair? It helps me with the frizz. Use a tiny bit, rub it between your hands, get some hair between the palms and run them down the length of the hair. (Be careful not to use too much coconut oil - I did that mistake the first time. ) Oh, use it on dry hair - you're more likely to end up using too much CO on wet hair.
PS: I haven't tried any of these things, but I guess that butters would do the trick too.