I totally disagree that kids should know how to read before age 5.
My dd went to kindergarten at age 5.9. She couldn't read at all, still didn't know her lower case letters, etc.
She is now 6.6 and a beginning reader!
Grahamsmom98, that is just so unkind of you to purposely address your nephew's wife by a name that is not hers and that you KNOW annoys her. If I was her, I would adress all correspondance to YOU using Ms. YourMaidenName!
I think a good reply would be to say seriously, "No she is not controlling me. I choose to breastfeed her."
Or, equally good. "GROW UP AND MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!"
ITA- these people are trying to control...
I really don't think it has anything to do with intact / circumsized.
My ds is intact and I babysit so I change a lot of diapers. DS is definitely among the smaller!
(DS, please forgive me for posting this!)
You are not over-reacting!! Three is way too little!! Just tell the in-laws that you and/or dh need to stay and DS will spend the week alone when he's older. Don't let them give you any grief over it- the idea is crazy!!