Wow--thank you so much, ladies!
LROM, thank you for that post!
I appreciate everyone taking the time to support me.
I thought I had done a good job maintaining privacy....but when I googled my maiden name today, the one and only hit was the county recorder's website. It lists the property we own, our mortgage company, and my married name. We bought the house before I changed my name.
So, just by googling my maiden name, there's my married name. I'm really...