Posts by starbound25

there are a ton of threads like this, the short answer is honestly I dont think that feeling ever really goes away, my mom had 4 and would have easily had more if they had not decided 4 was enough same with my sister and now DH and I are...

Jillian we have paid off all out debt and do all your suggestions(all great by the way) we've been living budgeted ever since we started having kids, we could write a book on it! maybe after we have a 4th one we will LOL

I think we're gonna try this cycle : of course in a week I could freak out and change my mind!

ABSOLUTLY go for it, we debated before having our third as well and it came down to the fact that we would have regreted it if we didnt do it, there is no way we could imagine our lives without her now and we now debate #4 but in our...

I am so sorry for what you have gone though, you sound loving and like you want another child either way in your lives, family and friends will ALWAYS have opinions but it is you and dh that LIVE your life I say go for it, all the best

Quote: Originally Posted by flapjack Your youngest is so young now. I say wait, and save. my youngest is one of the reasons we want to do it right now, as you can see by my sig I like them close, the first...

what makes me think it would be ok is that my husband is a manager in training for a grocery store, so when a store has an opening for a grocery dept manager he is definitly getting promoted and already knows the salary they offered him...

ok so lots going on here I think I'm losing it we used condoms this last cycle I am 2 days late, a $ store test today showed an insanely faint line during the tme frame and now hours later it looks more like an evap line I had a...

crosspost I meant to put this here I know that this is a personal decision and no one can make it for you I'm just curious about opinions we are debating ttc#4, we have always been in a tight spot financially since we started...

I should clarify some of that budget stuff the insurance I mean is car insurance going up for the van the taxes I mean our mortgage includes our town taxes that goes up a little each year the propane and psnh go up a little each year...