I am nursing my 3rd now and remember well the anxiety of weaning my first! It seemed like a HUGE deal and I just couldn't imagine our lives without nursing (which honestly was the problem!).
I nursed on demand so step one was putting us on a schedule.
Step 2 was figuring out which one I was going to quit first
Then I cut one per week.
The schedule was helpful b/c when he asked to nurse after a nap (for example) I could say "not now but ___". It was...