How about saving that idea for another day? If she doesn't want a party for her birthday - just celebrate as a family, and then have another get together later in the summer. No birthday, no expectations.
You can use white oak or cedar (untreated) and they will last a very long time. Mine (white oak) are 5 years, without any deterioration what-so-ever. My dad has some white oak beds that are 15 years - and still look great. I would not...
I have a slope at my house, and I've built raised beds on it. They are level, so one side is actually into the ground somewhat, and the other side isn't.
Just thought I'd throw out another suggestion...
Also try adding baking soda to the pan. Bring to a boil with the water, and that usually helps.
You have to stir the toffee the entire time you make it (at least that's what we do - do it on high and stir the whole time) it doesn't need...
Wow, Pumpkin Pie - I know it has been said over and over, but you deserve to hear it again - You Rock!!! I am amazed by how much you have accomplished in so little time!!! I'm so inspired! I've been putting off cleaning for this last...