I use these wipes http://www.emibeans.com/catalog.php?category=64
and absolutely LOVE them. I have some that are flannel/velour and some that are sherpa/velour. They are so soft, clean up messy bottoms well and are so darn cute.
As for wetting them I just use plain water with a couple of drops of the liquid soap I use to bathe my ds in (we use California Baby super sensitive) in an old sposie wipes tub with a drop of TTO or just plain baby oil.
When we are out of...