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I think so. We have 2 sons and I want full custody and I dont want him to have unsupervised overnights. He is Bipolar which isnt the problem- but some of the meds he takes knock him out completley, and he isn't able to do any nighttime paretning. Never has been. We have a 3 month old and 4yr old. Anyway, some days XDH to be is ok with the idea, some not. Also, he is not reliable about taking his meds and when he dosnt he can be delusional. So, I am anticipating a potential...
Hi there- I am almost single- our divorce is in the works- but I wanted to jump out here and say hi here I am, good to meet you...I have 2 boys ages 3 1/2 months (Quinn) and 4 1/2 years (Jacob)...I am getting the courage and also the "I demand 1000.00 dollars-don't screw with me" attitude together to go sell my engagement ring in order to hire a lawyer to get this divorce thing rolling. Nontheless, I am new to this forum and thought I'd introduce myself. My name is Sally,...
THe latest includes him telling me our young son, 3 1/2 mos old, dosnt look like him at all. Basically he said he dosnt think he is our sons dad. I told him tha I would only discuss our finances, our divorce and our children and that I had no desire to talk to him any further at this point about anything else. I also told him he could take a paternity test if he so desired. wow!
with dh and i divorcing, the hard part is now knowing where he is emotionally, and with his meds- on? off? im trying to detach from him and trying to not let him jerk me around. one day hes amicable, then next he's a mean *ss rat b*st*rd...its hard to detach from him, though, after 10 years and 2 kids. he is doing things now to try and get me to respond to him. A big issue for me and him in the past is that he would take a nap all day and blow off all the stuff we had...
Quote: Originally Posted by CarrieMF I believe the baby was actually JT's though I could be wrong on that. doing a double pump, bear w/ me... omg! i love it! jts love child! jt dosnt really do it for me.but i like thye love child idea.
WHile not having been through a cheating spouse, I can comment on how hard it was for me when dh was in a hypersexual phase. Not to get specific, but I could always tell, bc I would get more attention from dh which was great. But then he would not be satisfied with me, and my comfort level sexually, and he would have to find other "avenues" for his umm... you know... So the computer would start getting lots of viruses and then emails about porno would double or triple- dh...
Welcome to my world. I have experienced much of what you are going thru. My Dh- soon to be xdh- self medicated since he was a teen. He was in the hospital after expressing suicidal thoughts- for a week long stay on a psych ward on suicide watch. thats where he got diagnosed as BP, and then he was in rehab for a month- month and a half? So I can relate to what you are going through. I wish I could help more but please write more if you need to. After he got out, my...
Im so glad I started this thread- glad to know I am not the only one with this guilty pleasure. iloved the old victoria, and cant deal w/the new, shes too pouty. I love sharon, whatever happened to her mom in a wheelchair? she was such a spitfire... what ever happened with brit getting elecgtrocuted on the stripper pole? anyone remember that? and nikki and that stripper club owner.... bobby? Sal
I dont know if there is a "My Partner is Bipolar" thread, I looked/searched and came up with lots of posts/threads by folks who are struggling with Bipolar themselves, but none for spouses,partners, etc...If there is one you know of, Id love a link. Im currently struggling with my DH who is BP and an alcoholic- sober now. Last night I found out that about 3 or 4 weeks ago- supposedly, though in retrospect now I am guessing about a month to 2 months ago- he decided to...
Im just adding my hat to the discussion,with plans to return over the next day or so... as I am running out the door- or, I am supposed to be running out the door, but I am seeming to be "stuck" on the 'puter, as ds 1 would say- I know I have something indigoish/rainbowish/crystallish going on here, within my own self and within ds #1, maybe #2- but I need to do more reading and learning, so more links are appreciated... Thanks for this thread... Ahhh,...
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