I was totally humbled by newborn care. Totally seriously had no idea what to expect. I read alot and talked to a lot of people but had that attitude of "my baby won't be like that" or "i'll do it RIGHT and everything will be easy." So not at all. I'm still totally challenged everday by my DS (now 4) and I'm so thankful that it's this way. I need his challenging to stretch me to the edge of my comfort zone and beyond.