With #2 and #3 I had the most wonderful and empowering midwife. She understood my passion for childbirth and my desire to be in control. I really want to be a midwife when I'm done needing to employ them, so Jennifer made my visits as educational as they were caring. And she allowed me to really direct my care and personalize my births. As someone who bleeds a lot, I'm never willing to go unassisted, but I wanted someone unobtrusive who trusted me to know my body, my baby...