Posts by Learning_Mum

I think it sounds like you have some OCD going on. I recommend seeing a doctor and getting some therapy.

It honestly just takes time, and I know that sounds like such a sucky answer but it's the only way. After 18 months I was ready to start dating again and I met a wonderful, honest, reliable, hardworking man and we've been together for...

I would say "different people believe different things. It's OK for people to have different beliefs to us. I don't agree with Daddy about religion/racism/being a big douche. I believe xyz because abc. In our house it's not OK to call...

I have to agree that it sounds really unhealthy.   From reading your latest posts it sounds like he is abusive and pretty unhappy in the relationship.   Personally I would give him the ultimatum of couples counselling...

It seems pretty obvious from your posts that he's happy with the way he is, you made several references to "helping him better himself". Maybe he doesn't want to be any different, maybe he feels like you should either love him for who...

Quote: Originally Posted by Lazurii  Their play is identical to a tea party, but substitute alcohol.  It's along the lines of, "I'm drinking some alcohol, would you like some?  Let's add some salt and milk...

Quote: Originally Posted by journeymom    Mama, you don't wait until you know for certain what's going on.  You get her into therapy to find out what's going on. Here are your own...

I would start talking to a lawyer now and start getting their advice. You're in the US aren't you? I feel like if you leave the family home with the kids there could be some trouble, might pay to look in to that.   That said,...

Quote: Originally Posted by Findingstrength  Im trying to speak well of their father, even when they are not in ear shot.  But it hard.  Then they look at you like if he's so nice, why are you getting...

Are you kidding me? Are you saying that you lost your temper once and you think you caused PTSD in your toddler and caused him to stop talking? No. Just no. You are over reacting majorly.