IMO this definitely fits more into the "so wacky you just gotta feel sorry for her" bucket. It's not just rude it's... insane! At this point, unless your dp can figure out a way to get you all invited without messing something up, your choice is for him/dd to go or for you all not to go. What a screwup! Yikes.
6/15/09 at 2:02pm