I heard these comments when I was a new mom at age 20, and after I had my fourth baby I was still getting comments. "Why don't you put that baby down, you need a break sometime!" Or, maybe your babies will sleep better if you let them cry instead of nursing/rocking them to sleep. This is the silliest comment, and this is where having experience with several children has paid off for me, because I did not AP my older children. I did all the mainstream stuff when they...