Posts by danaalex

hi! i just wanted to update this thread. i am still living in the house, which is hard. but, i did qualify for food stamps. so, that helps with the cost of the house. i went to not using my credit cards, which has been such a help! ...

hi. i posted here once in may. but i don't really have much to report, as i'm not really "dating." however, i did want to say i read the book, mars and venus on a date. i read it before i really start dating so that i could...

hi! sorry for the lag time between updates. my kids are all under 8. the youngest two are 2.5 and 16 mo. so, they would qualify. i am looking for a job, which is a touch tricky because of the whole child care issue. i'd have two...

hi! i'm jumping in here though i'm not dating anyone and i have no idea if i will be in the near future. i'm separated, not divorced yet. in my state you have to do one year before you can file for divorce. so, i'm in the process now....

i didn't read the entire message word for word. i brought this right of first refusal thing up to my STBX on saturday. i planned a brief vacation to see a friend in june. told him about it about 1.5 -2 months before so that i could see...

my kids' father and i have separted, and i'm having to learn how to live on much less money than i was living on before. unfortunately, i'm not doing a very good job. and i'm racking up credit card debit very fast! i've asked him for...

i have 5 kids, all 8 and under. however, our lives didn't really change at all after their dad moved out. he worked pretty much all the time, and wasn't really into "family time." the kids and i figured it all out as we went...

you are not crazy! you are doing the right thing. it will take some time to believe that in your own head, but you'll get there. i wish i had left my husband years ago, when i only had one little baby. but, i didn't. i let his words...

my situation got really bad almost a year ago. and it took me until NOW pretty much to finally get over the drowning, sinking, can't do this phase/ feelings. now, i feel better. my kids have told me the past couple days that i look...

i started a book called "fighting For your marriage." i think it's a divorce stopping book. i enjoyed what i read a lot. i stopped reading it because i reazlied my issues with my marriage and spouse went far beyond the things...