Posts by myra_mcgray

I think you are getting lots of great advice but think you should also try to talk to your local la leche league leader. I know our leader has experience helping momma's who had tiny nursing babies and ex's who wanted overnights. Also if...

Quote: Originally Posted by NewMom0208 That is exactly my problem! I will act one way, his father in other way, won't he have to choose who to imitate? who to admire? who to follow? What do I do so it is not in his...

Okay so when I read your post I thought I think I know this guy, by your description of him, I am going to PM you.

I think any unscheduled time needs more than 24 hours notice and he needs to ask not tell you he is coming to get DS. He doesn't need to tell you he is getting married but he does need to tell you he has a special event he doesn't want...

I would tell her but do it sooner than later so she can rant etc. before the kids get home. I think it is unlikely that your DSC will not tell her this at some point and so you are leaving them to deal with the brunt of the announcemnt.

I think in addition to being at a difficult age your DSS just got new baby siblings at BOTH his mom's and his dad's house. So he went from being an only at two homes to being a big brother with parents with new babies who do not have as...

It depends on the laws of the state you reside in. In my state you can have someone's parental rights terminated if you can show that they have had no contact and provided no support to the child in the last year. I would contact a local...

If both parties agree to it you will have to write up a new order and file it and you will most likely, especially if one or both parties don't have a lawyer, have to go to court but with an agreed entry it will probably entail the judge...

This is not legal advice but I think you are going to have a huge fight and probably not much sucess suing for a change in custody although maybe you will get more time with DSD as a result. Thing like bad neighborhood, lots of time in...

I think it was definitely easier with my dd than it was when my son was born but I think was because DSS was older and had been through the experience before. When my DS was born DSS was 3 and he was 2 while I was pregnant and evil. He...