Posts by myra_mcgray

i think you should not make any permanent decisions about DH of GF while you are pregnant. I think that also if you are pregnant you DH and GF need to make sure that you are feeling supported and loved. I was pregnant and involved in a...

No way would I send the dolls to his mom's house. This is too easy to misinterpret and cause problems and it does not help your DSS at all. I would make the doll for him with the members of all of your family but I would just let him...

I don't feel I have any sense that your BF is telling you a story or not. Obviously you are in a better position to determine this but I don't feel concern about this because your BF is a man, I feel concern because (whether right or...

Quote: Originally Posted by Thisbirdwillfly I don't know at what point it stops but I generally try to take things one day at a time. If this is what my kid needs today, then good and tomorrow is another day. ...

We are always having issues with them, basically parental alienation in an un-documentable way. For instance, she literally tells him that her house is home, he's only visiting here (we have had this custody agreement...completely JOINT...

I don't have any experience with your situation specifically, but my mom is a childhood abuse survivor and I know that her fears and reactions had some pretty heavy and damaging effects on me and my siblings. This was particuarly bad...

i woild talk to a lawyer about contempt for the alienation type things, document everything, deal w/ video games in court. Sue for full custody b/c it does not seem like your joint custody situation isn' working since you can't have...

To me the biggest red flag is the GF telling her DD that her brother is not her brother. This to me would make a trip back to court appropriate. The other things just taken with this are huge problems because all of it is working to...

This is not legal advice, if you want legal advice you should consult a lawyer. Probably the easiest thing to do to change custody is if you can come up with a decision btn your DH and his ex. Then in the US you can just file an agreed...

I think you have gotten lots of good advice. I want to add my DSS who is also 5 (he will tell you 5 and a half) frequently tells us he wants to go back to his mommy's house and he will tell his mom he wants to come to our house. You have...