If you see DS hit the baby or see evidence of it, Immediately go to him and say "You cannot hit the baby!" But also say, "I know that the baby is sometimes very irritating. Please tell me if she is bothering you and until she is older I will get her out of there. It is very OK to be mad at the baby. I don't blame you for being mad, but you can't hit her!"
7/10/03 at 5:33pm