I definately struggle with this. I thought I was the hippest moma, but I threw a fit the other day when DH put DS in Minnie Mouse sweatpants. They were just red sweatpants that happened to have a small picture of Minnie Mouse, high on the thigh. I am also kind of bugged by the toys out there. I think DS would enjoy a tea set, but the only ones I can find are so ultra-feminine. I'd really prefer to get him a plain, gender-neutral one. (I heard Tupperware has one)