I get so angry that I just scream at him, literally. Lately, I smashed part of his stereo system on the garage floor. I made sure that it was never going to work again. HAHAHAHA. For retribution, he smashed one of my 3 sewing machines.
I've even hit him afew times, because of my frustration. He's threatened to hit me, but never has.
This is why I said that I think your home is not safe, stable and happy. I grew up...