I'm not sure when I decided. I think before she was born I was still open to two - in fact I always assumed I'd have two kids. But as she got older I realized we were perfect as a family of three. I had a pregnancy scare when she was two and realized I felt nothing but cold dread - and complete relief when it turned out I wasn't pregnant. DH had a V shortly after that and we haven't looked back.
1/30/09 at 3:46pm