Oh, Mama you are such a loving, caring person to want to do better for your daughter.
When I'm trying to correct my daughter's behaviour I try to keep in mind two things:
The thing I want her to do - like cleaning up.
And the reason I want her to learn it - being responsible for her toys and respecting our home.
I have to teach her both of these things - forcing her might make her learn the first part but it won't help her learn the second part. To help her learn to...